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Psalm 119:28 – I weep with grief; my heart is heavy with sorrow; encourage and cheer me with your words. (TLB)
I remember it as the one time in my life when I openly grieved and experienced good grief.
I don't come from a crying family. If we shed tears, we did so in private, and then, only for brief episodes. But for me, grieving changed when my father died. I thought that I was handling his death well as I watched him die in an Atlanta hospital. I even kept my composure when we went to the funeral home to view his body before the funeral. But during the funeral — as songs were played that my father loved — I lost my composure. As hard as I tried, I couldn't hold back the tears or even the open weeping. This grief was different, but it was good. It helped me to process my loss.
Spending seventy years of exile in Babylon and serving ruthless enemies discouraged God's people. These same enemies had also destroyed what was most precious to them: the temple in Jerusalem. And so, they cried — grieved. Would they ever leave captivity? Would God's house ever be rebuilt?
There was a time when the iconic picture of the strong, rugged man kept many from weeping openly. Crying wasn't for boys or men, and women didn't do much of it either. We could handle anything. We could pull ourselves up by our bootstraps.
Depending on the translation used, "Jesus wept" is the shortest verse in the Bible. He wept when He looked at Jerusalem — a city of unbelievers with a sordid history. He wept when His good friend Lazarus died prematurely. He cried on His knees in a garden when He thought of His impending doom on the cross.
If the Son of God grieved, there must be something good about it. Mourning, in whatever form it appears, is beneficial. It helps us to process whatever has brought our sorrow. Tears release pressure and cleanse the soul. They are for strong-minded people, not weak-minded pansies. Only when grief goes beyond a reasonable period or is processed in unhealthy ways does it stop being good and start bringing harm.
Let yourself experience good grief when sorrow enters your life.
Prayer: Father, comfort us in our grief so that we might comfort others in theirs. Amen.
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Martin Wiles <mandmwiles@gmail.com>
Greenwood, South Carolina, USA
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Blessings, Martin. Have a great weekend!
Thank you, Martin, crying is a great help in sad times. Blessings to you and your family.
Good morning,
This is a good message for all to hear and take to heart.
God bless.
Thank you for our devotion this morning. I am sorry but the expression “good grief” reminds me of good old Charlie Brown!
I appreciate your contributions.
Thanks, Martin, for another of your very meaningful and mindful devotionals. It is important that we do reach out to others and comfort them when they are going through grief situations. Blessings for these writings you do.
Amen Martin.
There are several very good articles on why tears are healthy, as they do cause physical reactions within the body that help to bring healing.
Blessings.
Very memorable moment, your daddy was a special servant for God!
Thank you, Martin, for sharing this encouraging devotional with us. Yes, let’s encourage, support, and comfort those who mourn. Blessings.
Thank you, Martin. I’m not much of a crier either, so this is encouraging.
Music links us to God and family – tears comfort us.