More and more people are using the Internet to communicate. It makes sense. After all, it's quick and easy to send someone an email, text, or direct message.

But I think that there's a growing problem. It's that people write things that are disrespectful.

Why?

First, let's be honest. We humans are deeply flawed.

Second, instant communication eliminates our "sober second thought". Before we've had a chance to fully think things through, it's easy to send something that we'll later regret. And it's too late to take it back.

Third, for all its benefits, the Internet has a desensitizing effect. Since we can't see people's faces when we communicate with them, it's easier to treat them like they're less than human. It's as if we forget that we're dealing with an actual person.

I think that a significant and growing source of stress and anxiety for people is techno-trauma.

And yet, Paul says, "Honor one another above yourselves." (Romans 12:10b NIV) We fail to do that when we don't use that sober second thought, and when we forget that we're communicating with other flesh-and-blood people online.

With all this in mind, here's a rule that can help us to honour others online, and which will curb the number of things that we type that we'll one day regret:

Never say something to someone online that you wouldn't say in person.

Before we type, message, or hit send, let's ask ourselves whether or not this is something that we'd say to someone's face.

Our online communication habits can give us the illusion of anonymity, since there's a physical distance between us. But anonymity disappears when we're face-to-face with someone. We're usually more accountable and respectful with our words in person.

So, let's honour one another.

Never say something to someone online that you wouldn't say in person.

Prayer: Lord, as we communicate with others online, remind us that we're interacting with people whom You love, people made in Your image. In Jesus' loving name, we pray. Amen.

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Matthew Ruttan <matthew@matthewruttan.com>
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